DOUBLE-killer Norman Parker, 48, was freed last week after spending more than half his life in jail. In 1963, aged 18, Parker, who is Jewish, shot dead his Nazi girlfriend who was two-timing him. He might have hanged, but pleaded self-defence and was jailed for manslaughter. In 1971, he was convicted of a gangland killing – the sensational Body in a Trunk murder – in which his victim was hammered, shot six times and disposed of in the New Forest.

During 28 years in more than 20 jails, Parker rubbed shoulders with notorious criminals like the Great Train Robbers and the Krays. He was also befriended by tycoon Gerald Ronson in Ford open prison, where Ronson was serving his sentence for his part in the Guinness scandal.

While inside, Parker gained an Open University degree and wrote Parkhurst Tales, a harrowing book about prison life. When Ronson left prison, he got Parker an agent to help him sell the book for television. ‘I’ve seen Gerald three times since he’s been out,’ Parker says in his Cockney accent. ‘I met him in schule (synagogue). We treated each other as equals. We’re both proud men.’

Parker is short with strong features and a prison gym physique. He is tough, lucid, looks you in the eye and never laughs. He wears jeans, and a chain around his neck.

He shot 18-year-old Susan Fitzgerald one afternoon in Notting Hill. She admired Adolf Hitler and kept guns and books on concentration camps. ‘It was strange for a Jewish boy to pick up with a Nazi. Both her brothers were guards to Sir Oswald Mosley and her family was deeply involved in armed robberies. She was a violent and unbalanced girl who slept with a gun under her pillow. It was a tempestuous relationship.

‘One day we had a hideous argument. She pulled out a gun. I thought she was going to shoot me, so I pulled out my gun and fired one shot,’ he says, matter-of-factly. ‘It hit her in the head.’

Parker then talks about his second killing, clenching his wrist with his hand. He was in his office with his co-defendant, David Woods, and Edward Coleman, a violent robber from Glasgow. ‘We had an argument about the way we wanted to hijack a lorry. Edward pulled a gun on me. I struggled for it, David hit him with a hammer, he fell to the ground and I killed him with his own gun. I killed a man who seconds before was trying to kill me. ‘At worst it was manslaughter. (This is the subject of a current judicial review.) That’s what I’ve done 23 years for. I don’t think the public lose much sleep when violent criminals kill one another. I covered up the murder. But we bumped into a policeman when we were trying to dispose of the body, and I assaulted him.’

How does he feel about having terminated two lives? ‘That’s something you can’t put into words. When you’re young and unfeeling, you can’t empathise. Now I’ve had quarter of a century of suffering. I feel diabolical about Susan. I loved her deeply. I visit her grave and pray for forgiveness.’ What drove him to murder? ‘I used to experience intense rages and a deep sense of frustration. I was emotionally unstable. I don’t think the roots were in my childhood, though. I just wasn’t happy with my lot in life.’ (His father was a bookkeeper, his mother a post office worker. He went to grammar school, did well academically and left aged 17.) Was he a psychopath? ‘That’s a catch-all term. I lacked empathy for people, so it was true in that sense.’ His last psychiatric report said he had high self-esteem and a sense of responsibility.

He’s changed in prison. ‘My first prison sentence definitely made my rage worse. But it is a corrosive emotion and I’ve learned to chill out. Things no longer touch me. I’ve become almost totally self-sufficient. I didn’t have any emotional relationships in prison. I pulled up the drawbridge and retreated into the castle.’

His Judaism also grew. ‘It’s rare to have a Jewish murderer. Anything related to crime is frowned on by rabbis more than ministers of any other denomination. I’ve been in jails where the rabbi has refused to talk to me or even shake hands.’

Does he believe in divine retribution and punishment when he dies? ‘I believe in God. So almost certainly.’

He doesn’t know whether he might re-offend. ‘Nobody can know. Emotional violent crimes are unpredictable. I could show you priests and bank managers who have committed or attempted murder. I’m not going to get involved in crime again.’

The world Parker has re-entered is different and shocking. He’s astonished at the dirtiness of London, powerful cars and the number of foreigners. ‘I can’t believe the homeless people on the streets. People actually sleep in cardboard boxes.

‘I’m also shocked by sex and promiscuity. Take these phone lines where people talk dirty to you. If someone had come out with that 23 years ago, he’d have been dragged into a psychiatric hospital.’ (He says when he went into prison he read The Daily Telegraph. ‘Now I’d describe myself as a radical socialist.’) He has returned to his 82-year-old mother. ‘Waiting for me kept her alive. She’s the only person in the world that I’m close to. I’ve had to get to know her again. She’d become a stranger.’

His father has gone into a rest home and his sister, an ex-bunny girl and model, disappeared. ‘She attempted suicide and turned to drink. Nobody’s seen her for 15 years.’

Parker thinks he’ll ‘adapt easily’ to life outside. ‘I’m ready to work for two or three years. I hope I’ll be able to get enough money to buy myself a nice place in Portugal and sit in the sun for a few years. I hope I’ll do something with my writing.’

His book, Parkhurst Tales, bears his pen name ‘Fred Barabbas’. ‘Barabbas was crucified on the cross next to Christ, not just any old criminal. In case that was grandiose, I added Fred …

A SOCIALITE who shrinks from publicity, the beautiful Uruguayan aristocrat and fixer for Hello! magazine who is said to travel the world with a Louis Vuitton suitcase full of money in search of celebrities for the magazine, Marquesa de Varela has opened the doors of her garden in her stunning rented Knightsbridge home to give her first interview. The triumph of Hello! is largely due to the normally mysterious marquesa, its marvellous hit woman. She has formidable contacts with the rich and famous and is a friend of the Duchess of York’s mother, Mrs Susan Barrantes. It was the marquesa, with her jet setting and title, who scooped the world with her 48-page special on the Duke and Duchess of York. She is famed for her exclusive though not penetrating interviews. (At Mandy Smith’s bedside, she asked: ‘Do you cry a lot?’) She never gets too personal, nor does she try to trick anyone in her interviews, nor does she put any indiscretions in print. (The only person she really wants to interview who hasn’t agreed to her request is the Pope!) The glamorous and charming marquesa has carte blanche from her publisher to fly Concorde to her interviews.

The marquesa has also shown great strength of character in the face of tragedy. She has two wrecked marriages, is said to be a social climber and may not be entitled to her title, which she should have relinquished (under Spanish law) when she divorced her husband.

Known to her friends as Naneta (a nickname from her nanny meaning ‘little girl’), her real name is Julia Marin. The marquesa, who admits to being 48, has perfect unruffled poise, cleavage, wonderful chestnut hair and looks devastatingly sexy in a Miss Selfridge dress and Portobello market jewellery.

Marquesa, you put a book on dogs and elephants on the table for our photograph. Why? ‘I hope it’ll teach people to take care of animals. I have 60 stray dogs I have collected in Uruguay. I really love them, I really suffer for them.’

In the first issue of Hello! you had an interview with the Princess Royal at Buckingham Palace. Can you tell us about that? ‘I don’t believe in writing letters to anybody important to ask for an interview. It’s much better that their friends explain what I want. Princess Anne wasn’t funny at all. The first thing I said to her when I arrived was, ‘I’ve come here to do a nice, positive, happy story.’ And she replied, ‘Well, you’ve come to the wrong place.’ It was my first time at Buckingham Palace, my first Royal, and in a different language. She wasn’t at all easy, but she is intelligent and cultured.’

IS IT true that you carry a Louis Vuitton suitcase full of money round the world? ‘No. I hate labels. I travel round the world in my leggings and American knickers.’ American knickers? ‘Yes, like Reebok.’ Ah, American sneakers. ‘Yes. What is knickers?’

You have met so many stars, you must have some interesting stories. ‘We were in Khashoggi’s boat during Ramadan when he was one of the richest men in the world. Suddenly the photographer said there was a lot of blood running down the corridor of the boat. They were killing sheep on board. I couldn’t sleep after that. I was so obsessed about the animals they were killing in the kitchen.’

The world and his wife wanted an interview with Mandy Smith. But you were the one who got it. Why? ‘I got Mandy because I have suffered a lot, really a lot with my second husband. So I could understand Mandy. She is not the blonde bimbo everyone thinks.’

Why have you given me a world exclusive with this interview? ‘I kept saying ‘no’ to everybody, but I have nothing to hide. I’m fed up with people saying I’m frivolous and a social climber. You have been lucky in getting me. You just happened to call when I was fed up with people talking about ‘the mysterious marquesa’.’

You put the rich and famous at their ease. How? ‘Because I live like them. It’s easy for me to understand their mentalities.’

How did you get the interview with the Duke and Duchess of York? ‘Luck. I was never a friend of the Prince’s. I’d only met him briefly. But I was friendly with a friend of his. Prince Andrew is the most charming man I’ve ever met and Fergie is so natural. She often says things that the Press wouldn’t believe. I’m like the diary journalists. I have to keep a lot inside me.’

You are a deeply glamorous person, marquesa. Can you tell us about that? ‘Since I was 13 I had to be glamorous because I was beautiful and I was the daughter of a rich man. I had to be frivolous as well. But deep down I’m not like that. I love my family and I try to be good with people who work. I understand how tough it is to work.’

Who are your famous friends? ‘Fergie’s mother is one of my best friends. She was staying here until yesterday when she went back to Argentina. She always stays with me when she comes to England. I’m also very good friends with the Duke of Northumberland who is very weird and goes out with Barbara Carerra. I have lunch with the Duchess of York and many dukes and duchesses.’ You have worked for Hola! (the original Spanish version of Hello!) for 11 years and have a Midas touch. But why do you still work? Why don’t you find a rich man, marry and go to live in Texas? ‘That’s what I’d ask myself if I were interviewing myself. All my friends have. They’ve all got the richest husbands. It’s easy. If you want to get married, you just do it. ‘But I was brought up in Uruguay (the Switzerland of America) and we were taught in my family never to go with men for money. Not to look for help from outside yourself, but to have pride, honesty and morals, although I’m not a Virgin Mary.’

What would put you off marriage? ‘I couldn’t marry someone if I didn’t like the way he dressed. If someone has bad taste, he has bad taste in everything. He’ll buy the worst car and we’ll disagree on everything.’ You were married first for nine years, then 11 and have since been alone for 10 years. You don’t currently have a boyfriend. How do you manage? ‘It’s difficult. I’ve been alone for years. But not for much longer now because I’ve made up my mind not to be. After my disastrous marriages, I was hurt and upset and didn’t want to know about men. I have not had a lover for years. I have my morals.’

Can you tell us about your marriages? ‘I was crazily in love with two very handsome and very destructive men. First Montenegro, then the Marques de Varela. I didn’t marry because of money. I could have married 10 times better. I was a really beautiful and successful woman. I could have married many famous names.’

You have said you suffered a lot with your husbands. ‘The marques was a very cold personality. I’m the opposite. I was crazily in love with him. But he only looked at me because I was beautiful and like another jewel that he had bought. I suffered horribly emotionally. I was always looking for love and never found it. I’ve told you things about my marriage that I’ve never told anyone.’

How did you meet the Marques de Varela? ‘He asked a friend of mine, ‘Who is the most beautiful and successful girl in Marbella this summer?’ Of course it was me. So we had a blind date. The minute I saw him, I was in love. He is so handsome, intelligent. And he knows how to command a woman.’ Is it true that you aren’t entitled to your title? ‘My husband said I could keep it. Unless I remarry, I’m the Marquesa de Varela.’ Marquesa, you live in the same jet-set way as the stars who grace the pages of Hello! How important is money to you? ‘Money is not important, I swear. But I don’t want to sound phoney. Money is important to everybody. It gives you freedom and you can buy whatever you want. In Uruguay, families depend on me. Families who used to work for my father on a farm. Each month I say I want to fire them, but I can’t do it. I’m not rich by European standards.’

You have homes all over the world. Can you tell us about them? ‘I have a small flat in Madrid and a house in Knightsbridge, but there are builders there. I have a farm in Uruguay, a new house in Montevideo and a farm in Punta del Este.’ (She phones the following day and says: ‘I own more property that I forgot about. I have a flat in Buenos Aires, another farm in Punta del Este and two flats on the port, a farm in San Jose and I’m looking for a house in Miami.’) Is it true that you were so penniless when your first marriage broke up that you lived in a Madrid boarding house? ‘No, with friends. My father said that if I wanted money, I had to come home. But I had failed in my marriages and was considered a disaster. They were always complaining about me, so why go back?’

You have three children: Bruno, 14, who is studying in Uruguay; Valeria, 21, who was one of the top models in Spain; and Natalia, 23. Can you tell us about being a mother? ‘I was a mother and stayed at home and cooked when I was married to Montenegro. I began working for Spanish television when my second marriage was finishing. Now Bruno is looked after by my mother and one of my daughters. I am in South America from December to April.’ You had your first boyfriend when you were 14, didn’t you? ‘That is right. I had lots of boyfriends. When I was 18, I had three at the same time. It was a disaster. I was terrible, I must face it. But having fun was very important to me. I always say ‘yes’ to everything. I never feel depressed.’

How have you made such wonderful friends? You have an address book second to none. ‘I met them socialising when I lived in Greenwich Village. New York is the centre of the world. I met John Kluge, already one of the richest men in America, Al Pacino, Mrs Randolph Hearst…’

You have a warrior spirit and are independent and forceful. How would you describe your character? ‘I’m strong, for self-protection, but not tough. I’m sensitive, very easily hurt. I’ve helped so many people get their positions in work and they never thank me. I’m very disillusioned about human beings.’

You also look as if you have a fiery temper and are the sort of woman one wouldn’t want as an enemy. ‘Yes, if someone crosses me, I’ll never forget. I can explode, but nothing too dangerous.’

Are you ruthless? Will you walk over people? ‘I will never betray anybody. I’ve never had a relationship with a married man if that’s meant walking over his wife. It’s different if a married man comes and says: ‘I love you…’’

CAROLINE PHILLIPS asks TV guru Michael Barratt to help in her quest to become cool on camera and just like a very, very famous weather girl.

SOME are born great, others achieve greatness, and others have it pinned on them through being television presenters. This is why I want to be Tania Bryer and have spent weekends on Learn to be Tania Bryer courses. The media training industry has mushroomed like satellite dishes over the past decade. And when it comes to training, I’m a course-aholic.

I start off in Hillside Studios, Bushey, in front of a camera, surrounded by floor manager, sound technicians, lighting and cameramen. (Hillside started as a place to train clergy to put over their message on television; now it trains everyone from chef Wozza to prison screws.) For this exercise, I’ve been told to think about press intrusion but the voice through my earpiece is nattering about bike trips in Amsterdam.

The cameras are about to roll. Suddenly I remember the recent transport minister on television proclaiming the road behind him utterly safe, just as two cars crashed. And Dan Quayle getting muddled on the box about the Nazi Holocaust. ‘It was,’ Quayle said, ‘an obscene period in our nation’s history, no, not our nation’s but World War II, I mean, we all lived in this century, er, I didn’t live in this century but…’ (People think it’s easy to be on television, until they try it.) ‘Stand by,’ says the voice in my ear. ‘Two to go, one to go, 30, and…’ The floor manager motions as if to cut his own throat. The cameras start to roll. My brain takes a vacation, my smile becomes Sky-high and my mouth feels as if it’s been in the desert for 46 days without water. Nearby is the control room (glad someone around here feels in control) with its bank of monitors.

Now the course leader, science programme presenter Su Ingle, is interviewing me on camera. ‘Have you ripped anybody to shreds of late?’ she asks, sweetly. (Presumeably talking about my work.) Doing this naked would probably be only marginally worse. I try to think myself into being Tania, the girl without whom the launch of a new range of Hermes shoelaces or opening of a (Gucci) plastic bag would be incomplete. To look relentlessly happy, like Tania, the darling of the social circuit.

Unfortunately, I’m wearing a too-shiny-for-television shirt, distracting earrings and clip mike which turns out to be the communications industry equivalent of a ball and chain whenever I move. But I develop a good line in monosyllabic replies. Answers matched only by the length of my Bryer-style skirt. Then we wind up the interview. (Telespeak for turning the cameras off.) Su later tells me that she once did a programme live, with a temperature of 105 degrees and a nurse standing nearby spraying her with water.

Next I’m in solitary confinement in what they call their ‘remote studio’, to give what they call an ‘immediate reaction’ to sticky questions. Ready to turn my brain from Moscow coups to chiropody campaigns. Looking straight at camera, peering into its disconcerting lens. I cannot see my inquisitor, only hear her questions. I do brilliantly. But then we both (the former weather girl and I) have a degree in politics. There’s no question about it, I am Tracey Sunshine, as Tania is known. Time to wind up, again. Now fast forward to another place, another time. Remind yourself of gravelly voiced Michael Barratt, the former Nationwide presenter turned media consultant. Known in the TV world as Grumpy, he is straight-talking and professional. He has nine children, was the first person to expose the Kray twins on air and thinks television is full of giggly girls who have been given their jobs because of their sex appeal. I follow up my training with him. This also gives me a chance to nip into another outfit, like my heroine.

GRUMPY says he wants me to ‘grasp the basics’, and has set up a temporary studio in his office for me to do so. The camera perches precariously over his desk. First of all I have to interview Joyce, who teaches people how to talk on the phone. Telephone voice training she called it. It is clear that (like Tania) I am thus well en route to becoming a pin-up for the troops in Ireland.

Next I have to ad lib to camera for two minutes about election night and five about travelling around Australia on a bus. Then I interview Grumpy. ‘Michael, you were hugely successful. Now you’re stuck in Maidenhead doing corporate videos and training. What happened?’ He says that’s a daft question and I wonder whether I should show him my Tania Bryer legs and Esther Rantzen knees. Lis Howell, former programme director of GMTV, once told me she’d make a feature of my pegs. The Phillips Factor. ‘Excellent eyes, good face, your fingers give away your nervousness,’ encourages Michael. ‘I’m getting excited about you. You’re improving fast.’ Michael was known as Take One Barratt, because he always used his first take. But that’s clearly not going to be my style. ‘In my experience the best performers in television are shy people,’ says Michael, hiding behind his jazzy tie.

I have my home videos of myself on the box, which I was given after the courses; ‘pilots’ I like to call them. So where do I go from here? Just as I’m beginning to despair of being Tania Bryer in this lifetime, I’m summoned for a screen test with producer Vicki Barass, of the hit show The Good Sex Guide. She is looking for a presenter to report from the front line of women’s experience on topics like body hair, family meals and feminine wiles. To look at the big questions of our times, like who gets the worst deal – wife number one or two?

My screen test takes place al fresco in the busy shopping precinct of South Molton Street. This is what you have to do when seeking the giddy stardom of satellite TV meteorology.

‘As women work, are men’s biological impulses going to change to fit this new social trend? Is his first smouldering stare going to assess not the size of your bra cup but your wallet?’ I announce to the camera and passers-by. I’m an exhibitionist, loving it. People stop and stare. The waiters in the cafe congregate at the window. At last I am a Waif (one of the Why am I famous brigade?) THEN I have to do vox pops and ask strangers questions: ‘Are men scared stiff if they think they’re talking to a woman who is cleverer than them?’ I ask. ‘And do you think you’re clever?’ ‘Erm, yep,’ replies a bald artist who is chewing gum. ‘Do men like women to be more stupid than themselves?’ I enquire of three harridans. ‘Sphlunk, vosh splosh yert,’ they say. Presumably they’re not English.1 It’s astonishing how you can accost strangers in the street and they will reveal intimate details about themselves if you’re accompanied by a camera crew. ‘I’m very brilliant,’ confides an Italian psychologist with giraffe eyelashes. That makes two of us…

Anyone want to hire me (no previous experience) to read their weather maps?

MAJOR Bruce Shand, father of Camilla Parker Bowles, is giving his first ever interview. The man who brought up the mistress of the future King of England is talking about marriage, sexual promiscuity, his children, the upper classes, the Queen, the effect of Camillagate on his family, his extraordinary upbringing and being a prisoner of war.

He’s sitting in the conservatory in his home, a former rectory opposite Plumpton race course. It was here that the beleagured Camilla was raised. It has a croquet lawn, beautifully tended English country garden and traditionally decorated rooms filled with antiques.

Shand, 76, is handsome and charming. He has the bronzed and furrowed face of a keen gardener and a cheery smile. He talks with old fashioned pronunciation, often ending his sentences with an upper class snort, what? He’s dressed in moleskins, toning socks and mocassins. Unlike Camilla, who cares little for her appearance, the 6′ 3′ Major looks as if he has walked out of a Ralph Lauren advertisment.

After the publication in January of the Camillagate tapes, it was alleged that he tried to ban Camilla from seeing Prince Charles.(Friends say that the Prince and Camilla have not seen each other since before Christmas for fear of further rocking the Monarchy; that their love is on hold.) It is said he thinks his daughter’s life has been ruined by the Prince. Certainly the affect on her health was visible and the pressure on the family intolerable.

He has said he won’t discuss his daughter. But how does he feel about sexual permissiveness? ‘It’s a pity that the ties of marriage have been so destroyed by it.’What has been the affect of the scandal on his life? ‘Let’s just say highly intrusive.’ Has it been difficult for him? ‘We all survive, what?’ What does he think about the damage done to the Monarchy? ‘I mustn’t say anything about that. You’re very good at putting the knife in the oyster shell.’

Has the country gone to the dogs? ‘There’s been a tremendous deterioration of conduct and respect.’ Does he have regrets? ‘Life is full of regrets. I’d better not say more. I might say something indiscreet,’ he says, typically laughing uproariously. He once worked for the Queen and is a master of discretion.

He spent 16 years in the Queen’s Household, as Clerk of the Cheque and Adjutant of the Yeoman of the Guard. ‘We were always dressed for the Battle of Waterloo.’ His most arduous duty was to carry the standard on State occasions. Once, cramped for room when he was required to lower the Standard to the Queen as she passed through the Royal Gallery he managed to hook the handbag of a French visitor on its butt end. ‘That was dramatic, what? The Queen was very amused by the whole thing.’

We talk then about his extraordinary upbringing. ‘My father had four wives,’ he says. ‘We had a very strange relationship. I never even saw him until I was 38 – apart from at my grandfather’s funeral when I was 18. I don’t think I’d ever have seen him, had my wife not said that the children should meet their grandfather.’

Shand was the only child of his father’s first marriage, raised partly by his mother and stepfather in America, and by his grandparents. ‘My father left my mother when I was very young. Very much later he married Elseth Howe’s mother. There were 17 years between us and I never even saw Elspeth until she was 16.’

Shand married Rosalind, the debutante daughter of Baron Ashcombe, in 1946. They had three children. His other daughter, Annabel Elliott?? sp??has an antiques shop. His explorer son, Mark Shand, wrote Travels on My Elephant.‘Because of my disruptive childhood, I was very keen to see that my own children had an even run. They all had an agreeable time.’ He is close to his offspring and happy with the way they’ve grown up. ‘I’m very proud of them all.’

Were there any particular difficulties in bringing them up? ‘I don’t think we had any more problems than anyone else. They’ve always been quite chatty. There haven’t been any inhibitions in their upbringing that I know of.’

We talk then about his war. Shand, who wrote Previous Engagements, a lively account of his war, has a distinguished army record. He was a second lieutenant in the Royal Lancers and won the MC and Bar for obtaining valuable information about the enemy on patrol. ‘But at grievous cost. Two officers and men were killed… In Belgium I saw a party of lunatics, escorted from an asylum by splendid nuns, being shot by German aeroplanes… We often went three nights without sleep. You began to feel a brick floor was the most seductive place in the world. ‘

He was in the eighth army in 1942 when he was wounded and taken prisoner of war for two years, after the Battle of Alamein. ‘Rather a dreary performance.’ (He has that upper class habit of underplaying things.)‘I ran into a group of German vehicles. Only distinction was that it was said to be Rommel’s HQ,’ he says, roaring with laughter. ‘I got hit in the face (he has the scar beneath his eye) and the leg. The agony came later.’ Is he brave? ‘Don’t think so. There’s no point getting in a flap on these occasions, what?’

He journied in lorries and trains diverted by partisans and blown up lines, sailed from Derna to German occupied Piraeus in a hospital ship that had been the Czar’s Black Sea Yacht and ended up in a Russian hospital. ‘A cynical french doctor said to me, ‘if you don’t get enough food your wounds won’t heal and you’ll probably die.’ A cheerful gallic approach to life, what?’

He went to Spangenberg, a prisoner of war camp. He says gleefully that his Rugby schooldays prepared him for the ‘tedious’ experience. He’d never return. ‘I’ve always found Germans an incredibly depressing, humourless, dull people.’

After the war, he became a partner in a Mayfair wine merchant. But he would have liked to have been a publisher. His grandfather wrote an abstruse book on psychology, called The Foundations of Character. Has he read it? ‘Ach no. I think I’d be hard pushed to, what?’ But Shand edited ‘One Young Soldier, the memoirs of a cavalry man’ (out last month) about his friend the late Tim Bishop, brother of Molly Bishop/Lady Scott, Britain’s grandest society portraitist.

Despite the early knocks to his constitution, he appears robust and spritely. ‘I survive! The health centre nurse the other day said she wanted to talk about the delicate question of drink. As far as I can see, a ‘unit’ is an invisible thing! When I told her what I drank, she said, ‘Terribly sorry, you’re a heavy drinker.’ I’m very glad to be in distinguished company!’ His emotional warmth is surprising in one of his background. He is a also a humourous, honourable, immensely likeable man. ‘A sweet and decent man,’ remarks Nigel Dempster.

THAT fateful Saturday night Heidi read an Agatha Christie thriller before falling asleep. She had always dreamed of living on her own in London and had moved into her rented Shepherd’s Bush flat just the day before. It was on the ground floor but had good security. Yet she awoke at 2am with a strange man standing by her bed. It was the start of a three-hour ordeal.

Heidi is good-looking, her face expressive. She speaks seamlessly and with remarkable self-possession, her constant smoking being the only indication of her nervousness. Yet this composed young professional woman now lives in fear because her assailants, who terrorised her in her own home, have not yet been caught.

That night, on Saturday 3 July, the apartment upstairs was empty and her neighbours were having a noisy party.

Suddenly she awoke. In the darkness she made out a man standing in her bedroom. ‘I screamed like an animal,’ says Heidi, a 25-year-old fashion publicist.

Her intruder was startled. ‘Stop screaming or I’ll kill you,’ he shouted. ‘Put a blanket over your head.

‘I’m going to knock you unconscious. But I won’t rape you,’ he went on. ‘I’ve come to teach you a lesson not to leave the windows open.’ She had left the tiny top bathroom window ajar.

At first Heidi thought she was dreaming. She pulled the blanket over her head (she was wearing a short nightdress) and wondered whether he had a gun. ‘I kept telling myself not to panic and do as he said, so he wouldn’t kill me.’

Her assailant asked why she wasn’t at the party, blindfolded her with a T-shirt and the blanket, and pushed her through the flat to the bathroom, where he wiped off his fingerprints.

‘You have a wonderful body. If I saw you on the street I’d chat you up,’ he said. She could feel him kissing her through the T-shirt. ‘But I’m not here to rape you.’

He pushed her back to the bed. She breathed heavily, trying to stop herself breaking down. He told her to ‘shut up’. Then he took her purse. ‘There’s only £25,’ he said, ‘I should have gone to Knightsbridge.’ Heidi was shaking, terrified. ‘He kept threatening to kill me. But I kept making conversation to make things easier. I felt I had to be truthful with him.’

Her head covered, she led him to her hidden antique ring and bank cash card. She was relieved when he asked for the PIN number, thinking that meant he was going, and gave him the wrong number.

‘It’s all right,’ he said, chillingly. ‘My mate outside will check it.’ Heidi was horrified. Suddenly both men were standing in her bedroom. With astonishing presence of mind, she played for time; she told the second criminal to go to the (distant) Kings Street cash machine.

‘Take a cab back,’ her first assailant ordered his accomplice, handing him Heidi’s money. Then he left.

Heidi sensed the man drop his guard. She grabbed her can of CS tear gas, hidden by her bedside. ‘I knew if he saw me, he’d kill me.’ Suddenly she smelt him standing near her, and sprayed the gas where she guessed he stood. He swore madly.

But the gas was five years old and didn’t work properly. ‘I couldn’t believe it. He should have been lying on the floor.’

The man screamed at her. ‘You fucking bitch. I trusted you and what did you do? Now you deserve to be raped and I am going to kill you.’ Heidi punched and kicked. The man was holding her by the wrists and in the struggle bit a chunk out of her arm.

Then he took a kitchen knife, held it to her neck and, to Heidi’s horror, started to molest her. ‘I thought, ‘Don’t think about it. Block it completely. Don’t feel anything. There’s nothing you can do.’ ‘I kept thinking, ‘This is how people feel when they’re being raped’.’ The knife blade was still sticking into her while he assaulted her. ‘‘Wibble’ your hips,’ he repeated, curiously.

Suddenly the accomplice returned, furious that he’d been given the wrong PIN number. ‘I don’t think he wanted his mate to know what he was doing to me. I gave him another wrong number and he left again.’ (She had £500 in her account, but he never withdrew any money.) Heidi was once again alone with her abuser. He now threatened to tie her up and lock her in a cupboard. (He said he’d then call the police.) ‘I didn’t have any rope. I told him to lock me in my cellar. I was afraid of cellars when I was a kid.’

He pushed her to the cellar, with the shirt over her head. ‘He kept marking places on my back with the knife, saying ‘This is your heart and here’s your liver’,’ she says, in astonishingly measured manner. ‘My legs turned to stone.’

Her body was exposed. ‘It didn’t really matter any more what I looked like. I thought, ‘Just kill me. Let my mind have peace. Free me from this.’ He sprayed tear gas on her gaping wound. ‘Thank God it was empty.’ Then he imprisoned her in the cellar, alone and petrified. She listened for sounds from upstairs. Then in a box in the cellar she found two kitchen knives. She didn’t know whether the villains had gone. ‘I thought now I’ll kill them.’

She threw her body against the door, but it didn’t yield. Then she found a garden spade and smashed at it. Finally she crawled through. ‘I don’t know how. The hole was tiny, just 12 inches across.’

Intrepidly, Heidi went through the flat, brandishing her knives. When she found it was empty, this extraordinarily self-possessed woman sat down and smoked a cigarette.

Heidi is German, has only lived in England for 18 months and couldn’t remember the number for the emergency services. ‘I rang 192 and broke down.’ When the police arrived she cried uncontrollably.

They took her to the Brentford Rape Suite – ‘They apologised that it was a male doctor, but I didn’t mind’ – where she underwent forensic tests and gave her 18-page statement.

‘It’s very strange but I didn’t feel dirty. It didn’t occur to me until 12 hours later to take a shower.’

Today Heidi wears jeans, chic green jacket and bohemian jewellery. University educated and smart, Heidi is lively, open and optimistic. The police say she becomes daily more lighthearted and friendly. She had never before been the victim of even petty crime and her experience has had a profound effect on her. (She had the CS gas, which is legal on the Continent, simply because she felt ‘more secure’ with it.) Her assailants had seen photographs of her on the walls of her flat. ‘I feel really frightened in the street if a black man approaches me. Scared he’ll recognise me.’ She has altered her appearance, but not radically. ‘I refuse to change my life completely.’

She has also changed her behaviour. ‘I used to ride my bike in the middle of the night in Brixton, going from one party to another. Now I always take taxis.’

And she has moved. ‘I’ll never dare live alone again. I’ll have a panic button fixed wherever I live. I don’t care what it costs.’ But she doesn’t feel compelled to return to her homeland. ‘This could have happened anywhere.’

She hasn’t ‘yet’ had counselling. ‘I hope it won’t affect my attitude to men. I don’t think it will.’ Her mother is a teacher and her father died when she was an infant. But her sister, an actress, flew to England and helped her to relive the experience while doing cathartic breathing exercises. ‘She made me imagine he was there again.’

Now she says: ‘I feel like skinning those men alive. ‘The worst part wasn’t the sexual side. It was the feeling that this guy could decide whether I should live or die.

‘How easily someone can snip your life.’

Can you help trap the attackers who dropped a key and stole a ruby ring? THE CRIME took place at 8 Leysfield Road, Shepherds Bush, between 2am and 5am on Sunday 4 July. Police are also interested in anyone using the Midland bank cash machine in Kings Street W6 at that time.

Of the two male attackers, one is definitely black. One is 5ft 10in tall, of medium build with broad shoulders and had short afro hair. He was wearing a white T-shirt, with numbers or writing and black vertical stripes, with blue jeans and a belt with large buckle.

IT IS a truth universally acknowledged that a single woman in possession of a fortune must be in want of an alternative therapist. At least that’s the world according to Princess Diana, who has just been seen stepping out of the latest fashionable foot doctor’s surgery, probably en route to Manolo Blahnik via a touch of colonic irrigation. But this is a truth on which the Princess and I agree. Because I am also a therapy junkie.

We’re the A Team – people with analysts, acupuncturists, accountants, architects, allergy therapists and Alexander Technique teachers. Been there, done that, got the green pesticide-free T-shirt. There! It’s out. (But only after major advisory consultations with my shiatsu masseuse, reflexologist and homeopath.) We’re the sensitive types who sit in offices (if we have to work) with an ioniser nearby to purify the air, a lumber roll, stocks of horse-sized vitamin pills and a water purifier from which to drink. Aromatherapy essential oils burn in a dish nearby to overcome our obsessive hatred of Gitanes.

We believe we’re all addicted (whether to chocolate, heroin, shopping or caffeine) and use words like rageaholic. We’re addicted to finding things wrong. We are also, of course, hopelessly self-conscious and obviously self-absorbed.

At home we hide books like Women Who Love Too Much and What Women Want. Almost any book on recovery (a key A Team word) while we wait for a book on self-help recovery. If we thought the neighbours couldn’t hear, we’d play music from Puerto Rican rainforests or New Age dolphin gurgles to help extend relaxation and awareness. We yearn for weekends in Tyringham Naturopathic Clinic eating grapes and soya bean casserole while sitting in a seaweed bath.

I have tried most of these things. I have acupuncture regularly, allowing a practitioner to play voodoo dolls with me and right an imbalanced liver which has a channel flowing up my big toe. I learned Alexander Technique until I almost died of boredom. (For weeks the tutor teaches you how to get out of a chair and sit down again. It was worse than the severe riding accident which got me there.) When I wanted to lose weight, I visited a Chinese kinesiologist (tests muscles to diagnose food allergies). I can’t remember what he said, but I bet I had some.

I’m hooked on Ayurvedic massage (two people massage you) and Indian rope massage (where a man swings from a rope to massage you with his feet). I’ve even been to Balham to have my feet done by a Metamorphic technique practitioner who says the foot from toe to heel corresponds to the pre-natal period from conception to birth.

Alongside Princess Diana, I’ve had reflexology, in which areas of the soles correspond to organs of the body and the feet are probably the key to the entire workings of your mind.

I’ve had colour therapy and gem therapy; pill-popped homeopathic remedies, taking substances so diluted they’re like a drop of liquid in the Baltic Sea; tried Bach Flower Remedies for negative emotional states; and been in a flotation tank with saline solution to stimulate the body’s production of happy hormones.

In Hong Kong, I tried herbalism and daily drank tea probably made of bull’s horn and fish ear, which proved handy for menstrual tension; resident in Sydney, I had iridology, which can diagnose the entire nervous system from the surface of the iris.

It’s easy to laugh. But whether you have spots, tennis elbow or major depression, it’s obvious to me that you need rolfing, past-life reconstruction or hands-on healing. If all else fails, you can have your aura photographed for a tenner or nip off for a self-realisation weekend workshop (another key word that, workshop, in the A Team) in the South of France. We don’t even mind too much if the therapist is unregulated and a former management consultant.

The big question is why? Is it too much money, time, lack of self-worth or guilt that has led the ladies who lunch (or work) to have reflexology instead of pasta in Beauchamp Place?

I’ve had my share of illnesses, operations and emotional traumas. But I suffer no more from physical ailments and psychic malaise than your average citizen. Probably less. I’m not a hypochondriac. But I believe in holistic treatment, in which the patient’s mind, body, diet, lifestyle and emotional state are considered alongside Western medicine.

We live in a society in which orthodox religion has been forgotten (priests no longer have the answers for our troubles). We often have a sense of powerlessness and lack of worth. So we search for answers and ways to fix ourselves, seeking remedies to help us feel in control of our lives. Religion gave us rules. Now there aren’t any rules so people have to find something else to give meaning to their lives. Eastern religion and gurus from America do nicely.

We no longer believe in original sin or spend our lives trying to atone for Adam and Eve’s hash-up. Now the onus is on the individual. Psychotherapy, which is all about realising the self and balancing the opposing forces of good and bad, has replaced religion. But psychotherapy is painful and hard work. Sitting under a purple pyramid is quicker. Instead of original sin, we now have to deal with childhood. Which is something we’ve set up as a false icon, thinking it should have been an idyllic period of innocence. (But ‘They f*** you up your Mum and Dad . . .’) So we’ve all had damaged childhoods and been abused (another key A Team concept). We’re all insecure and have an inner child who’s in a bad way. We need anything to help us get over the drama of having been a child. The problem is that we’ve forgotten that our difficulties are just part of the human condition. Even Princess Diana’s.

DIANA’S GUIDE TO ALTERNATIVE THERAPY CHIROPRACTIC
She regularly receives treatment and in 1991 was made patron of the Anglo-European College of Chiropractic.

ACUPUNCTURE
Oonagh Toffolo has visited the Princess since 1989 to stimulate the body’s ‘meridians’ – invisible energy paths on the skin – with needles.

AROMATHERAPY
Receives treatment from Sue Beechey, of Aromatherapy Associates in Fulham, using different oils for different effects – eg citrus oils to stimulate; basil and camomile to relax.

REFLEXOLOGY
Yesterday it was revealed that the Princess has been having her feet massaged, stimulating the blood supply and nerves and relieving tension.

COLONIC IRRIGATION
In September 1992 rumours were rife after she attended the Hale Clinic on a day when colonic irrigation practitioners were offering treatment.

HOLISTIC MASSAGE
Stephen Twigg started providing deep tissue massage in the late Eighties as part of his holistic approach (the belief that the health of mind, body and spirit are co-dependent). Sacked in 1992 after talking to the Press.

ASTROLOGY
Visits Frederick Lyle, who has a reputation for making observations in psychological, rather than astrological, language.

DIANE OSBORNE’S husband died in her arms. ‘After I’d called the ambulance, I begged Bob not to leave me,’ she says.

‘I kept saying, ‘Baby, don’t leave me. Don’t leave me now. Please don’t leave me.’ But he went purple, stopped breathing and died.’

Afterwards she went into deep shock. ‘I had terrible shakes and couldn’t even hold a cup without the liquid pouring out. I’ve been crying a lot and haven’t felt like going from day to day.

‘Each morning I wake up and remember that Bob is dead and I feel sick. I used to eat a lot, now I hardly touch a thing unless somebody forces me. I’ve had terrible nightmares, always the same dream in which Bob is dying and going blue.

‘At first when people spoke to me, the words didn’t even go through my ears to my brain. I couldn’t remember a thing for six weeks – I had to write everything down.

‘Even now I can’t recall things properly. But I can remember everything that happened that night most vividly.’

Robert Osborne, a husband and father of three, was fatally stabbed just before Christmas last year. He was 40 years old.

He was killed by Joseph Elliott, a drugged teenager whom Robert had followed with a hammer when he caught him slashing neighbours’ car tyres for fun. Yesterday an Old Bailey jury allowed the 19-year-old killer to walk free. Diane, 38, is sitting in the kitchen of their rented family home in Streatham being comforted by her sister-in-law Patricia, who lives next door. Diane wears jeans, looks wan, smokes roll-ups and drinks Liebfraumilch. ‘I’m devastated. Justice stinks,’ she says furiously. ‘Elliott admitted taking drugs, slashing tyres and stabbing my husband. But they still said he wasn’t guilty. My husband is now dead and his killer is free.’

She appears alternately distraught and numb. Nothing prepared her for the jury’s verdict. ‘I expected murder or at least manslaughter for that boy,’ she says, looking dazed. (She rarely refers to Elliott by name, generally calling him ‘that boy’.) ‘I don’t have feelings of revenge. But I want a retrial. I’m told I can’t get one because I don’t have any more evidence.’

Elliott’s miserable childhood was used as an excuse in court. ‘But my dad died of cancer when I was 15,’ says Diane. ‘I almost died when I was 12, my mother suffered from mental illness and I was brought up in three foster homes.’

She looks sadly at her two labrador-cross dogs and cat playing nearby. ‘It’s unreal to say that someone doesn’t turn out right because of their childhood.’

She recalls the events of 10 December last year when she was in her garden watching an eclipse of the moon. Robert, a musician and music tutor, was inside decorating.

‘I heard a hissing noise and went out and saw these two guys slashing tyres then trying to break into a pensioner’s house.’

She followed them but fled when they faced her and went back to ring the police. Robert said she shouldn’t bother. ‘We’d called them out before and they hadn’t come. They’re too busy. My car had been done twice before and so had Bob’s. His handbuilt car was his pride and joy.’

Robert grabbed a hammer. ‘He’d had enough of this sort of vandalism. He just wanted to demand an explanation and get their names. He would never ever have used the hammer. He picked the hammer up by its head and just took it for protection.’

He followed the unemployed youth (who was high on LSD, drink and cannabis) to a local council estate, cornered him on a balcony – and was stabbed through the heart.

Diane had followed her husband: ‘Bob ran downstairs to protect me. He collapsed. I tried to stop him kicking Bob while he was dying,’ she says heavily. (In court, Elliott denied kicking his victim as he lay dying.) ‘He punched me around the head and rib cage.’

She holds back tears as she remembers her husband. They’d been together 16 years but she’s shocked and says she cannot remember when they married.’

‘Everybody says they’ve never seen a closer couple. Now it’s been taken away.

‘He was a good father and husband and a just, quiet man. He’s the most gentle man in the world. He used to take spiders out of the bath and put them in the garden to avoid hurting them.

‘He lived for his music and family. He was very clever –and used to teach 13 to 17-year-olds. He also played guitar in pubs with a band or on his own.

‘Our house was derelict when we moved in four years ago – and he did everything from the plumbing to building a pond in the garden. He was so happy that wildlife was thriving in it.’

Diane has coped with life by ‘living for the trial, thinking it would bring justice’.

‘She kept saying her life was over when he was killed,’ explains Patricia. ‘But she kept going so she could see his killer brought to justice.’

How did Diane feel when she saw Elliott? ‘It was very hard. I kept remembering him as I saw him on the night – mad, out of his head, vicious and dangerous.’ After the verdict, Elliott whooped with delight and Diane broke down in tears.

She returned to her ‘broken family’. She has three children – Tarina, 19, Justin, 18, and Lisa, 14. (Yesterday Tarina was on holiday in Spain.) The effect on the children has been devastating. ‘Lisa has done nothing but cry her eyes out. When I told her her father was dead, she went mad.’ They also face the prospect of meeting Elliott because his council flat is 300 yards from Diane’s home. He lives in squalor on an estate littered with cars with missing wheels, syringes on the ground and graffiti. ‘If I bump into him, I don’t know what I’ll do,’ she says, quietly. ‘I suppose I’ll have to do what I did in court and walk by, bite my tongue and hide my tears.

‘I will not move from here,’ she adds, forcefully. ‘It’s my house and Bob did the decorating. If I move somewhere else where there’s no decorating by Bob, my life will be as empty as my heart is now.’

She is also terrified that Lisa will bump into Elliott on her way to school. (Lisa had, in fact, met Elliott before the tragedy. ‘He spoke to me,’ she says. ‘He’s dirty and he always looks like a tramp. I saw inside his home and it’s disgusting.’) The Osborne family is united in their horror at Elliott’s acquittal. ‘When the jury foreman stood up and read out the verdict, I thought another juror was going to stand up and say it was a joke,’ says Justin, a former store security guard.

‘It was bad enough having to go through his death and the funeral, but this really might just finish us off.’

Later, next door, Robert’s brother Mark, a builder, said: ‘How can a peaceful bloke like Robert go out of his house to protect my car, get beaten to death and his killer go free? Those 12 people who let that bastard out should be examining their consciences today.’

Previously Diane had faith in the system of justice. ‘But if I walked into the Queen’s house or didn’t pay my poll tax I’d be locked up tomorrow,’ she says now.

‘We live in a society where people are allowed to slash old ladies’ throats while they’re in bed and rape little girls and get away with it. Now you can’t even go out and protect your car without ending up dead. If that boy had robbed a bank he would have got time.’

Diane’s future is bleak. ‘I’m now trying to survive on income support. I’ve lost his teacher’s salary and have to get by on £70 a week. I’ll scrape through financially. But emotionally I don’t know what I’ll do. I’m knackered. I haven’t got any strength left and nobody can help me.’ She looks down. ‘My husband paid with his life for having a hammer. He died for nothing.’

Self-defence or not? How the judge guided the jury FOR LEGAL reasons, the judge, the prosecutor and the jury in the Robert Osborne murder trial are unable to defend themselves against the mounting tide of public concern.

But, by examining transcripts of the case, it is possible today to throw more light on the way it was handled.

This is an edited version of Mr Justice Kay’s direction to the jury: ‘The only lawful justification for this killing that arises is the question of self-defence.

‘Self-defence is lawful when it is necessary to use force to resist or defend yourself against an attack or threatened attack, and when the amount of force used is reasonable.

‘I emphasise two words: necessary and reasonable.

‘There are, thus, three matters that you have to consider. First and foremost, was the defendant acting in self-defence at all.

‘The defendant tells you he wanted no part in any fighting and if he is or may be right, then clearly his actions were entirely to defend himself. ‘If, however, you accept the evidence of Mr Osborne’s widow, for example, that the defendant shouted down a challenge to Mr Osborne, the prosecution say there is no question of him simply acting in self-defence. ‘Secondly, there is the question whether it was necessary to resort to the use of the knife at all. The defendant says that he was not intending to stab, merely to wave the knife in front of him and that it was Mr Osborne whose momentum carried him on to the knife. Thus he asserts that he was doing no more than was necessary.

‘Thirdly, was the defendant using no more force than was reasonably necessary? What is reasonable depends on all the facts, for example, the nature of the attack or anticipated attack, whether or not a weapon is used and whether or not the attacker was on his own.

HE THINKS he’s Pooh Bear. That’s who Jonathan Watts, head of history at Benenden, one of the most famous gels’ schools in the country and alma mater to the Princess Royal, identifies with in literature. This means he’s solid, reliable and vulnerable. But not, of course, a bear of little brain who is gullible and gets things wrong. Now Watts is to break a 70-year-old tradition to become the school’s first male ‘housemistress’. The 43-year-old bachelor will take charge of 50 girls aged 11 to 16.

Benenden old girls range from the Princess Royal (‘We’re pleased when old girls do well,’ giggles Watts) to the BBC’s head of radio, Liz Forgan, and Baroness Ryder. It’s a £3,910-a-term establishment where they play lacrosse, have midnight feasts and parental Range Rovers disgorge tuck boxes and well-groomed ambitious young things for the tutelage of the indefatigably cheerful headmistress Gillian duCharme. Once comprised of daughters of the Empire, it is now full of daughters of solicitors, barristers and judges. The girls who normally parade in tatty jumpers and tights with holes in them are on holiday. Watts is sitting in the engraved-wood 19th century staff room where a 17th century dandy with cake-doily collar looks down from the wall.

Watts is chunky with receding hair, the look of a royal private detective, labrador enthusiasm combined with robustness, ingenuous charm and trustworthy voice. He’s keen on school dinners (particularly puddings) and school hols. He talks a lot, as do all teachers. He also has that actorly enunciation and projection that teachers go in for.

He’s wearing a suit, white shirt, squishy-soled shoes and rebellious tie. Before he arrived at the school five years ago, a friend said to him: ‘You’d better not wear a suit or grow a moustache or you’ll be mistaken for a housemistress.’

So is it true that the girls have nicknamed him ‘Sausage’ (on account of his generous girth) as reported in The Daily Telegraph? ‘No. They made that up. The girls tend to call us by our surnames, as if we were second undergardeners,’ he jokes. When the girls read the newspaper moniker they became protective. ‘Now you mustn’t get a complex and become anorexic,’ they said.

Watts is to become mother hen at Marshall House in September. He characterises Marshall girls as ‘independent, good organisers who get on with life and don’t get very emotional about things’. When Marshall girls win a coveted trophy there is ‘desultory applause’. Macmillan’s grandchildren, Lord and Lady Stockton’s daughters, are going there. Watts hopes to enthuse his charges with his passion for the double bass. He won’t parade round the dormitories (‘If I do, I’ll send a little girl ahead of me like a miner with a canary,’ he has said) or showers. But will he become a pin-up? Will the girls fancy him? ‘Oh come off it,’ he says, sitting with one foot on top of the other. ‘A balding, overweight school teacher!’ Unfortunately the former master who was a ‘crush’, a 24-year-old Jason Donovanish tanned classics teacher, left to become a rock star. So at Benenden now, ‘crushing’ often involves younger girls swapping gifts with older ones.

And how will this surrogate father deal with girly problems like premenstrual tension and pregnancy? ‘I have a full-time matron. But I’m totally unshockable. Beryl Reid said if someone were to tell her they were having an affair with a goat, her reply would be that she hoped it had nice eyes.’ And if a pupil came to Watts to say she was having an affair with a goat? ‘I’d probably ask to meet the goat and say, ‘I hope it’s clean.’ ‘ Unlike most people, Watts is genuinely fond of teenagers. ‘I like the things that infuriate other people, the faddishness. I lose track of the acned Australian pin-ups who appear on dorm walls. Often I get a little girl to give me a lesson in what’s going on. My bedtime reading is occasionally Just 17. You have to be able to empathise at this level.

‘You should be able to devote lots of time to drinking squash and eating inordinate numbers of chocolate biscuits. Then when something goes wrong they feel they can come to you. Many girls prefer to talk to a man (30 per cent of the Benenden staff are male). It also helps to remember what it was like when you were 15.’ What was it like? ‘I can’t remember . . . Well, it was a period of great self-doubt and uncertainty.’

His own education spanned local authority grammar school, choral scholar at Oxford and research work at York University where he produced one of the world’s many unwritten doctoral theses. ‘It sits in cardboard boxes at home. I’m not sure civilisation has lost much by its lack of information on English painting between 1390 and 1450. Occasionally I look at it and can’t understand it.’

Watts is of solid academic stock. His father is a retired primary school head, and his sister a slide librarian at Exeter University. Formerly head of history at two independent boys’ schools, Watts was appointed at Benenden after a 45-minute interview and tour of the grounds, 240 acres of Kent countryside. ‘The question which floored me completely was, ‘Why in five years time will we be pleased to have employed you?’ With a naturally English sense of masculine modesty, I refused to answer.’ (On being pressed, he said something about academic excellence and enthusiasm.) He treats women in egalitarian fashion. ‘I don’t think of them as feeble creatures who should be doing flower arranging.’ But he has mostly taught in boys’ schools. ‘Female students work harder, are more cautious, keener to get things right and don’t take risks,’ he concludes. ‘They tend to see what’s bad rather than good. They’ll come out of exams saying, ‘Oh my God, I didn’t know that,’ whereas boys will say, ‘Marvellous question on Henry VII.’ When you point out that it was on Henry VIII, they’ll say, ‘Oh what’s a number between friends?’’

TALKING to the TV presenter Sarah Dunant is like speaking to her on television when you’re at home. She protects herself from questions with a glass screen, runs the show and you have the feeling that your only control is to switch her off.

The big difference is that in life she’s smaller than on television. Indeed, this self-dubbed Alan Ladd of arts programmes quips that she’s often shot standing on a box. The other difference is that when you talk to her with a cup of coffee rather than an autocue, she doesn’t wear her screen-sized strawberry-frame spectacles.

Dunant, former Kaleidoscope producer and sometime presenter of Woman’s Hour, is a presenter of the cultural magazine programme The Late Show. This week she publishes her third thriller, Fatlands. It is a snappy, Chandleresque novel which charts the further progress of Hannah Wolfe, her independent, feminist private detective from Birth Marks.

The book will be serialised on Woman’s Hour. ‘I read the last one, but didn’t do it well enough,’ says Dunant. ‘I couldn’t get a babysitter so my child was in the studio eating meringue. At the end of episode nine you can hear the crunching.’

Dunant, 42, has curly brown hair, a pinched face and talks with her hands and broadcasterly emphasis. (‘It’s quite clear,’ she says, ‘that I’m not a sex symbol and My Face is Not My Fortune.’) She wears Designer Oxfam – gold day shoes with thick black tights – like her heroine; and she lives in Tufnell Park, like her heroine. We’re talking in her garden, where organic frisee lettuces and cauliflowers grow. Her heroine, on the other hand, only dreams of an alternative lifestyle.

So how many men has she slept with? Eighteen? And mostly SLBA? (Sexual Liberation Before Aids.) That’s a question her heroine gets asked – and answers. ‘You’ll have to ask Hannah.’ Dunant dodges the question. ‘She’s a character. She ain’t me.’

But are there parallels between a female private detective and a television presenter? She laughs. ‘They both get scared. I still get frightened when the green light goes on before big discussions that I’ll let people get away with things and won’t ask the tougher questions because I won’t think quickly enough.’ Is that because she’s not clever enough? ‘No. Thinking on your feet is a different kind of intelligence.’

Dunant is dubbed bossy, brainy, the new Joan Bakewell, the thinking man’s crumpet. She is compared to Cliff Richard and called Brains, after the Thunderbirds character. ‘In the supermarket I’m never mistaken for Cliff. Cliff, however, is always being approached . . .’

She has an acerbic wit but is not a warm personality and comes across as tough, slightly arch and self-satisfied. ‘Occasionally I get over-confident and have a loss of perspective and humility,’ she admits.

She used to drop out. Post-Cambridge University she went to Japan and worked as a hostess in a nightclub. ‘It was severely innocent. But it’s not very nice to sell your company.’

In 1978 she left Kaleidoscope and went to Bogota where she got involved in a drug trafficking network. ‘I met and hung out with a lot of people who were in the cocaine trade. It was the time before the Mafia and Columbian cartels moved in, when there were a lot of independent American operators.’ Did she take drugs? ‘We all did, though many of my generation wouldn’t admit it now. I’ve had very happy times on drugs. I don’t mean ‘happy’ as in ‘out of my skull’, but interesting, creative times.’ She says she wouldn’t take dope nowadays. ‘It doesn’t fit into my lifestyle any more.’ The last time she dropped out was when she went to India, aged 31. A colleague says she was a driven personality when she went, but returned transformed. Was it a life-changing experience? ‘I’ve now been there seven times, including with my kids,’ she replies. ‘But I didn’t turn into John Lennon.’

She gained a sense of perspective. ‘This, the centre of the universe, felt like a very small part. Things other than money are important there . . . But I’ve had more penetrating existential discussions with my five-year-old about God than I’ve had time to have with myself over the last decade.’

Dunant has lived with her ‘partner’, Ian Willcox, for 10 years. ‘I refuse to talk about my private life.’ Why did they never marry? ‘No reason to. It’s never been an issue.’ Willcox runs an independent radio production company. Do they compete professionally or otherwise? ‘No, we do different things. He’s one of those rare men who gets tremendous satisfaction from the home, children and cooking.’ Willcox does the cooking.

Dunant is earnest about women’s issues. She has, to her chagrin, been called a trendy feminist. ‘That’s a lazy insult. It presupposes opportunism and that you only feel those things because everybody else does.’ She is a committed feminist who fights for equality between the sexes in all areas, particularly since Zoe (five) and Georgia (two) were born. ‘I keep wondering whether because they’re little girls some things will be closed to them.’

SIR Nicholas Fairbairn would once have liked 24,000 wives, like a man he heard of in Saudi Arabia. The flamboyant politician is back from his deathbed with a vengeance, firing off letters to the newspapers about our parlous times and talking about sex, his marital infidelities, the deaths of two of his children, and the ghosts in his castle.

While almost everyone welcomes the recovery of the former Solicitor-General for Scotland, it may prove unfortunate for his parliamentary colleagues that Fairbairn is devoting his new-found energies to completing the second volume of his autobiography. ‘There will be lots of descriptions of Members of Parliament,’ he says. ‘Like that stuck-up little prick with pin eyes . . .’

This week he returns to work after a month off with a serious bout of viral hepatitis, for which he was hospitalised for 10 days. He has lost one and a half stone and won’t be able to drink alcohol again.

‘I suppose I’ve had enough in the first part of my life for the whole of it,’ he says, in a frail voice. ‘I have drunk a bottle of whisky or vodka in a day. But I wouldn’t say that was regular manifestation.’

He’s wearing a tartan suit he designed, has mad tufts of hair, looks much older than his 59 years and rolls his eyes and scratches his head when he talks. He is brilliant, provocative, contrived and self-admiring. Sir Nicholas has conquered trauma in his life. Two of his five children died in infancy, one in 1964 and the other just a year later. ‘I was driving to see my mother-in-law with Elizabeth, my first wife,’ he says, clasping his hands tightly and talking heavily. ‘The twins, Charlotte and Micheline, were asleep in their carry cots in the back. They were four months old. ‘Leakage from the exhaust was drawn into the back of the mini van. Maybe there was a draught or the back doors didn’t really fit. Micheline was on the exhaust side and when Elizabeth went to get her, she was dead. She’d died of carbon monoxide poisoning. She’d just been christened the week before.’

Edward, his only son, died the following year of cardiac problems. He was just two days old.

What effect did these deaths have on him? ‘They gave me a fundamental emotional shock and depth and insight into the transience of life,’ replies Sir Nicholas, the son of the famed psychoanalyst William Fairbairn. ‘But I didn’t need bloody counselling! The idea that there is a safety net and 64 nannies to dust you down every time the sun goes behind a cloud is ridiculous. I just drew on reserve strengths to get over it. I also think religion is absolute bunk.’

He’s talking in the magnificent 13th century Fordell Castle in Fife, which he bought as a ruin for £100 in 1960. It has a trick staircase for shooting enemies into the downstairs loo, a chapel, ice house and ghosts. Lady Petrodie, who was hanged as a witch, ‘pulls the bed clothes off any female sleeping in the Rose Room’. The other ghost is a monk whom Sir Nicholas hears walking on the gravel at night. Sam, or Owl, as he calls his wife Suzanne, pops her head round the door.

Sir Nicholas’s favourite topics are women and sex. He married Elizabeth, daughter of the 13th Baron Reay, in 1962.

‘She hated gardens and resented my spending money on the garden or house. So there was constant friction . . . I had innumerable lovers. God knows how many.’ He believes that sexual fidelity is rare and monogamy in marriage a facile rule.

He met his second wife, Suzanne, when she came to him to get a recommendation for a divorce lawyer. ‘A friend said, ‘I have a friend who is in trouble, would you see what you can do?’ And that was it!’ He married her in 1983 in the chapel in his baronial home, wearing oyster-coloured Indian tunics that he’d designed. He describes the marriage as ‘buzzing bliss. We do absolutely everything together. She has blossomed since she came 10 years ago. She gardens, paints, arranges flowers – not that she arranged any of these. I do the flowers’.

Did they choose not to have children? ‘Well I would have made a positive decision not to, but Sam was already snicked. Her fallopian tubes, you know. It’s not death that is the problem in the world but birth.’

And what of his marital indiscretions? ‘That is not a matter that matters, nor a matter I want discussed,’ he says, raising his voice. But he has in the past talked about being unfaithful. ‘I’m not saying that.’ He also denies the story of a former girlfriend who allegedly tried to hang herself from the lamppost outside his London home. ‘It was a complete fabrication by that shit . . .’ he says, naming a past Cabinet minister. ‘I caught him out in a bit of lechery and adultery, double crossing his wife and mistress and offering to marry someone he had no intention of marrying.’

Sir Nicholas first became aware of his incredible sex appeal at seven, lost his virginity at 16 and thinks his sexual energy will burn ‘for ever’. He holds that the release of tension which comes from orgasm and sneezing is essential to sanity. So what makes him sexually attractive to women? ‘I think because I’m interesting.’

What makes him a good lover? ‘Well, I’ve never seen anybody else making love, but it appears that I give ecstatic satisfaction, which is the point of the exercise.’

Sir Nicholas was himself the unwanted result of an unintended conception. His parents were spectacularly ill-matched and his mother, a painter and musician, was lonely and rejected. He was deprived of emotional closeness. ‘My parents were very distant figures. I felt very isolated, but learned independence, developed my own thinking and read a lot.’ He was brought up by his ‘beloved’ nanny. Did he love her more than his mother? ‘Oh yes,’ he says, emphatically.

He was dumped in boarding school at seven and was beaten consistently. Did he feel unlovable? ‘I don’t feel in the least unlovable. I knew I was unloved. Perhaps that was why I unconsciously developed humour, wit and intelligence to get attention.’ (He says his own children are ‘happy little women’. Charlotte, 29, is ‘married to the conductor of the LSO’; Anna-Karina, 27, is ‘a secretary who designs jewellery’; and Francesca, 25, ‘a nomad’.) Sir Nicholas fears the destruction of individuality. But he need not worry. He is expressive, eccentric, creative and convinced of his enormous talent.He loves reading, painting, gardening and writing poetry. His paintings are reasonably accomplished, his limericks hilarious and his poems are of the ‘Oh there is a time in May/When hearts are free/And night is day’ variety.

Is he superior to the run of mankind? ‘I’m different. I’m a one-off and special.’

This is the story of three Londoners who have decided to take on the West End musical mafia to prove there are living alternatives to Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber; to fight the recession with one of the great palliatives, escapist entertainment; and to spend the money of one of them in so doing. The unlikely trio are Alan Davies, ex-docker turned auctioneer, John Asquith, spiritual healer and breathing teacher, and Jesse Carr-Martindale, former infantry officer and erstwhile owner of London’s first floating nightclub.

It all started in 1989 with John and Jesse writing a musical called Convention and peforming it a deux in the sitting room of Richard Branson’s former house in Spain. John then performed it in its entirety to Alan in the back of his car on the way back from Maidstone, and Alan decided he had a hit on his backseat. So Alan, who had never done anything like this before and cannot afford to indulge in a spot of financial ruin, emptied his pockets in the pursuit of fame, fortune and a West End transfer. It will cost £2 million to put on the full musical, and he’s met all the costs of his dream to date. ‘How much have I put into it?’ says Alan. ‘‘There’s ‘no stopping. It’s all ‘going now.’

Extraordinarily, he has paid £30,000 to hire The Bloomsbury Theatre tonight and tomorrow to do a showcase when they look for angels. (It has capacity for 600 people which he’s nearly filled.) But he has met other costs inventively. Having received a quote of £19,000 for scenery, they decided to make their own. ‘It’s all hands ‘to the pump,’ says Alan. ‘Before you go can you help us paint a car for the stage?’ Meanwhile John has enticed a cast of 35 ‘mostly West End’ professionals (including P.P Arnold, who sang formerly with Tina Turner) and 15 helpers to offer their skills free for a month. And they have been rehearsing small scenes in the flats of the cast, scattered round London. ‘Mobile rehearsals, a moving studio,’ says Jesse, pucker voiced.

What’s it about? Convention is a love story which takes place during the sales meeting convention for a multi-national life assurance company. ‘A romance with complications,’ adds Jesse, who wrote Dempsey and Makepeace and much of The Bill, and created the story.

John, who breathlessly describes himself as a dancer, stage technician and voice trainer who has written 19 pieces for the stage, produced, choreographed, directed shows and worked in cabaret, wrote the music and lyrics.

He is also a chairman of the National Federation of Spiritual Healers. ‘The healer becomes attuned to a higher energy source. You can call it white light, healing energy or God’s love,’ he says. ‘It’s like putting a jump lead on a car so that the patient gets a boost.’

Still, it’s a tricky business producing a hit musical. Why do they think they are in with a big chance? ‘Because it’s better than anything I’ve seen in the West End,’ says Alan. The others nod vigorously.

Janet Reger, the Queen of Knickers cum Maureen Lipman of the underwear world, is commenting on the storm in a B-cup caused by the Kate Moss underwear pictures in this month’s Vogue. Entitled Under-exposure, the grunge model looks like a 13-year-old. Are the pictures disgusting? Hideous? Tragic? Paedophile?

Kate Moss happened to be wearing a Janet Reger pink lace bra (£100) in the pictures, but it is not a look that Queen Janet usually encourages. ‘We don’t subscribe to that look or find it attractive. I like women to look like women and girls to look like girls.’ Her daughter Aliza, Princess of Knickers, nods approvingly.

Janet Reger has been making slinky bras – and briefs, basques, nightdresses and nightgowns – for the past 26 years, and there is nothing she does not know about what men want.

So what sort of underwear should you wear to get your man? ‘Clean,’ replies Princess Aliza perfunctorily.

‘By the time he gets to your underwear, it’s a question of holding your man, not getting your man,’ interjects the Queen. ‘Men appreciate women who look good. If a woman looks like a slut, men won’t fancy her however kind and loving she is. All men are into black lace and black silk satin.’ Raine Spencer, she of the legendary libido, is a customer and mainly buys silk nightwear. La Contessa is, apparently, not ideally proportioned for mass production. How did she catch her Count? ‘She’s charming and we make her lots of silk nightwear and underwear specially. Sometimes she wants it cut a little higher or slit a little lower. She’s quite tall, of small build and hippy.’ La Contessa netted her Count with couture lingerie, natch. Lord Bath, the Loins of Longleat, visits regularly to kit out his 54 wifelets. ‘He spends lots and lots, and buys outrageous amounts,’ says the Princess, contentedly. ‘Since Christmas, he’s been in three times. He usually buys silk and is well in for a few hundred pounds each time.’ Four sisters from a Saudi royal family spent £53,000 on nightwear and promptly sent it all to the dry cleaners. Fergie always bags a big bag of lingerie. And then there’s Princess Michael of Kent and Princess Diana . . .

Eric Clapton ran up a ‘horrifying’ bill over Christmas. Rod Stewart shops with Rachel. ‘She does a help yourself and goes through all the drawers like a self-service,’ says the Princess. And singing star cum Bosnian relief worker Cher spends £1,000 on each of her visits.

Her business was born in the Sixties in a flurry of silk and lace, spawned a million high street copies and went into voluntary liquidation in 1983. She bounced back and now operates from her Beauchamp Place shop and sells by mail order.

Janet Reger sells a black bra trimmed with marabou feathers (with which you can fish) and glitter for £111; snakeskin Lycra stretch bra and briefs for £122; a beautiful housecoat with hand-appliqued French lace for £499; eau-de-nil chiffon frilly bra, brief and suspenders; a Chinese bustier with brocade and toggles.

‘Men don’t buy that sort of thing,’ she says, twanging a Chinese toggle, ‘because they don’t feel safe with it.’ Currently the most fashionable garment is a Lycra peasant-style body in chenille finish with front lacing. Silk satin bras, briefs and suspender belts with lace are perennially the most popular items with men. They simply don’t buy bodies. And women opt for a greater variety of lingerie, from bodies to camisoles. A standard array of transvestites buy camiknickers and lots of nightwear. ‘One comes in here and spends £800 on his sister,’ intones Queen Janet. So whither Nineties underwear? ‘It’s going stretchy and corsetted,’ she says.

All is not quiet on the lingerie front. There have been strange stirrings amid the famous boned and underpinned negligees, lace G-strings and frothy pink bras. Recently they had a woman in the shop who broke off her engagement because her fiance bought her some Reger underwear. She stormed Beauchamp Place with her ivory silk bra. ‘I presume she was militantly women’s lib,’ says the Queen, drawing dedicatedly on her Silk Cut. ‘She came marching into the shop and screamed, ‘Take this back. I don’t know what he was thinking of. I’ve never been so insulted in my life. What sort of woman do you think I am?’ ‘ Another storm in a B-cup?